You’ll never find someone exactly like you, and that’s a good thing. But you also won’t have to interact with people you constantly have ill wishes towards. It’s in our human nature to make connections like this. These sorts of people are called “friends”. Real friends.
I know I’m not going to find people who are 100% like me and I’m alright with that but when their opinions in question is sort ones that is against my identity or similar, I can’t help but to get cautious and question if I want to really talk or interact with them. I don’t expect it to be a dream island, but more a safe space for people like me and not feel judged for my identity but rather my personality at best if that makes any sense